ABOUT
Behind Every Rule, There's a Story.
Before I became a dating coach, I was a woman who knew what it meant to lose herself in love and discover the strength to find her way back.
My journey taught me that knowing your worth isn't a lesson you learn once. It's something you practice.
THE STORY BEHIND THE RULES
Why I Became a Dating Coach
My Personal Journey
A decade ago, from the outside, my life looked exciting and successful. I was traveling the world through my career, independent, accomplished and confident in so many areas of my life.
But when it came to love, I was a completely different woman.
I experienced the anxiety, overthinking, disappointment and heartbreak that so many women experience in dating. I gave too much. I worried too much. I tried to hold onto relationships that were not giving me what I needed.
Then came the heartbreak that changed everything.
I was preparing to marry someone when suddenly, it was over.
I remember the loneliness. I remember watching friends go out with their boyfriends while I was home wondering what had gone wrong. I remember what it felt like to believe someone loved me and still find myself accepting behavior that hurt me.
At one of the lowest points in my life, a close friend introduced me to The Rules.
At first, I wasn't convinced. How could a book about dating possibly change something that felt so complicated?
But I committed to it.
And I mean committed.
“Then came the heartbreak that changed everything.”
THE MOMENT EVERYTHING CHANGED
The Greatest Change Was in Me.
I studied the principles. I practiced them. I stopped chasing.
I stopped trying to convince men to choose me. I learned boundaries. I became more selective about whom I allowed into my life.
Most importantly, I began to understand what it meant to become a "Creature Unlike Any Other."
It wasn't about pretending to be someone I wasn't. It was about recognizing my value and behaving like a woman who genuinely believed in it.
And my dating life changed.
Men pursued me differently. Relationships felt different. I received genuine marriage proposals. But perhaps the greatest change wasn't in the men I dated.
The greatest change was in me.
I had learned that I could walk away.
I could say no. I could stop trying to make the wrong relationship become the right one. And I lived that way for years.
Then I Learned Another Lesson.
Eventually, I entered a relationship that began with The Rules principles at its foundation. For a long time, I remained committed to them.
But somewhere along the way, I drifted.
Not overnight.
Little by little.
I said yes when I meant no. I began prioritizing his behavior over my own feelings. Some of my boundaries weakened. Old habits quietly returned.
And eventually, the relationship ended.
Since then, I've been finding my way back to the best version of myself, one day at a time.
That experience taught me something I believe every woman should understand:
Knowing your worth isn't a lesson you learn once. It's something you practice.
The same is true of boundaries, confidence, self-respect and healthy relationship habits.
I don't teach these principles from a pedestal. I teach them as a woman who has experienced what happens when you live them, what happens when you drift away from them and what it takes to find your way back.
A Thoughtful Approach, Grounded in Experience.
Education & Professional Training
Certified Rules Dating Coach
Trained in the methodology of The Rules, the New York Times bestselling book by Ellen Fein and Sherrie Schneider.
Relationship Coaching Institute (RCI)
Professional coaching training
Bachelor of Science in Psychology and Performing Arts
University of Miami
International Association of Professions Career College
Professional development
and training
MORE THAN DATING ADVICE
Guidance With Heart. Standards With Purpose.
My approach combines honesty, encouragement and the timeless principles of The Rules to help you make intentional choices in dating and relationships.
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Honesty With Compassion
Real conversations, thoughtful guidance and a supportive space where you can be honest about what you want and what may be holding you back.
02
A Proven Framework
Coaching rooted in the established principles of The Rules, adapted to help you navigate the realities of modern dating.
03
Focused on Your Future
Rather than remaining stuck in past disappointments, we'll focus on building healthier habits and approaching your next chapter with intention.
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Choosing Yourself
Because the most important relationship you nurture is the one you have with yourself. Your standards, boundaries and self-respect come first.
